Why do good guys always lose out in BGR???

Actually...part of me has already analysed the answer through my past readings in psychology and some personal experiences...but...i still hate to swallow the fact that good, nice guys will always lose out in getting a gal they want to 'bad', or rather guys with an attitude.

Ive heard countless stories. Good, nice guy chases gal, showers her with love, care, concern like no other. Gal accepts it. Then here are the three most general options (i think) when the nice guy expresses his liking.....

OPTION 1 : give him a chance to become a boyfriend. he continues showering her with utmost care and concern. May have long-term relationship depending on personality match. but gal MAY take nice guy's concern for granted, comment theres no spark or chemistry and end it off. (maybe) theres alot of variations to this, but so far ive seen more sad stories than happy ones.

OPTION 2: give him a praise of 'nice guy' as a certificate of recognition for being the nicest guy to her... and stay that way. he will always be her guardian angel, her best friend.pronto.(not that the nice guy wld mind. actually he knows this is coming and will stay contented that way. stupid nice guys. so nice they are dumb)
"stay there for me, u r the nicest person to me. but sorry, we cant work out in bgr. thanks."

OPTION 3: sharp gal sees it coming. Before the nice guy makes any obvious moves of declaration, she drops hints to him to let him know that its not possible. Sharp nice guy either gets it, back off, prob still be her best friend. Or dumb nice guy will juz continue to pursue her until something makes him realise juz how stupid he is.

Haha...these are the few general options ive come up with. Sigh...but seriously i tink theres nth wrong with gals. 'bad' guys with an attitude are always appealing, charismatic, romantic...who wun like em? Nice guys sometimes fail to make the relationship exciting. They cant spice things up. Yes they have all the sweet nice gestures but over time gals may take it for granted. Prob gals want an exciting dramatic relationship than a dull one...i really dunno.

....can anyone enlighten me on this, please? but then again...whose reading this blog anyways?

hey dingli of the future, how will u tink of it then? lost faith in gals liao? become super 'niao3' with an attitude? cant be bothered liao? or are u still the same and is still collecting the recognition of nice guy certificate and compiling them to albums?

I noe i have an attitude....just gotta bring 'him' out.

'hey dingli, u r a nice guy' -_-
yeah i noe...and sometimes...i dread hearing that...cuz that means its gonna be tough being her bf....

Sometimes, when this topic hits upon me....juz sometimes...i just feel...im sick of being a nice guy. but i noe i cant get away from it because my inner core is just that....nice. haiz. I guess its time i accept this part of myself and the truth of relationship reality...

To all nice guys in the world... someday, a gal will step into your life and truly appreciate who you really are. Believe... stay firm, your day will come.

CHEERS!!!!.....y is it i still feel the truth gnawing inside....damned...but....

ALL THE BEST, MR NICE GUYS!!!!

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